Kv\u011bten, \u201e\u010das l\u00e1sky\u201c je spojen se zamilovanost\u00ed, p\u0159ibli\u017eov\u00e1n\u00edm se a spojov\u00e1n\u00edm se mu\u017ee a \u017eeny do vztahu. Co pr\u00e1v\u011b dva konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed lidi do vztahu p\u0159iv\u00e1d\u00ed? A pokud vztah trv\u00e1, co n\u00e1s ve vztahu nad\u00e1le udr\u017euje? Prvn\u00ed v\u011bci, kter\u00fdmi n\u00e1s druh\u00fd zaujme, je jeho p\u0159ita\u017elivost ve vzhledu a chov\u00e1n\u00ed. Vedle erotick\u00e9 p\u0159ita\u017elivosti se v\u0161ak na v\u00fdb\u011bru partnera pod\u00edlej\u00ed dal\u0161\u00ed, \u010dasto skryt\u011bj\u0161\u00ed motivy.<\/p>\n
Ve sv\u00e9m partnerovi hled\u00e1m sebe<\/strong><\/p>\n V obdob\u00ed zamilovanosti prom\u00edt\u00e1me vytou\u017een\u00fd obraz sebe sam\u00e9ho na sv\u00e9ho milence. V partnerovi milujeme sv\u00e9 nedostupn\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti. Nev\u011bdom\u011b hled\u00e1me takov\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd n\u00e1m nejl\u00e9pe pom\u016f\u017ee, st\u00e1t se pln\u011bji sebou sam\u00fdmi, rozvinout n\u00e1\u0161 potenci\u00e1l. Vn\u00edm\u00e1me v druh\u00e9m \u010d\u00e1sti n\u00e1s sam\u00fdch, kter\u00e9 dost nepova\u017eujeme za sv\u00e9, se kter\u00fdmi nejsme v dostate\u010dn\u00e9m spojen\u00ed, nebo kter\u00e9 odm\u00edt\u00e1me. Neasertivn\u00ed si vyb\u00edr\u00e1 asertivn\u00edho, ten kdo obt\u00ed\u017en\u011b p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1 svou pasivitu pasivn\u00edho a podobn\u011b.<\/p>\n Sv\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti, kter\u00e9 jsou pro m\u011b obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9, nebo se jich ob\u00e1v\u00e1m, um\u00edst\u00edm do druh\u00e9ho a mohu se tak s nimi skrze sv\u00e9ho partnera kontaktovat. M\u00e1me nad\u011bji, \u017ee se s t\u011bmito sv\u00fdmi vyvlastn\u011bn\u00fdmi \u010d\u00e1stmi setk\u00e1me, abychom se stali \u00fapln\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi, abychom se jako osobnosti v\u00edce rozvinuli nebo uzdravili n\u011bco v n\u00e1s zran\u011bn\u00e9ho. Nebo prom\u00edtneme do druh\u00e9ho odm\u00edtanou \u010d\u00e1st sebe sam\u00e9ho a pak s n\u00ed bojujeme.<\/p>\n Nad\u011bje p\u00e1rov\u00e9 smlouvy<\/strong><\/p>\n To co n\u00e1s p\u0159itahuje k sob\u011b a dr\u017e\u00ed ve vztahu, jsou o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, pot\u0159eby a nad\u011bje, kter\u00e9 nev\u011bdomky zahrnujeme do v\u00edce \u010di m\u00e9n\u011b v\u011bdom\u00e9 p\u00e1rov\u00e9 smlouvy. \u010c\u00e1st t\u00e9to smlouvy je vyslovena, sd\u011blena, \u010d\u00e1st nikoliv, proto\u017ee si j\u00ed nemus\u00edme b\u00fdt ani v\u011bdomi.<\/p>\n Soulad v p\u00e1ru vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed to, co maj\u00ed partne\u0159i podobn\u00e9ho, co je spojuje. P\u00e1r spojuje n\u011bjak\u00e9 t\u00e9ma a zp\u016fsob, jak\u00fdm ho \u0159e\u0161\u00ed. T\u00e9ma a z\u00e1rove\u0148 z\u00e1kladn\u00ed typ chov\u00e1n\u00ed vych\u00e1z\u00ed z dosavadn\u00edch \u017eivotn\u00edch zku\u0161enost\u00ed obou partner\u016f. V\u011bt\u0161inou z n\u011b\u010deho, co bylo obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9 nebo nep\u0159\u00edzniv\u00e9. Partne\u0159i se vz\u00e1jemn\u011b vyb\u00edraj\u00ed v nad\u011bji, \u017ee s partnerem mohou za\u017e\u00edt v\u00edce uspokojen\u00ed ne\u017e ve sv\u00fdch ran\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch s rodi\u010di nebo lidmi, kte\u0159\u00ed o n\u011b pe\u010dovali. Maj\u00ed nad\u011bji, \u017ee uzdrav\u00ed bolestiv\u00e9 z\u00e1\u017eitky, \u017ee vy\u0159e\u0161\u00ed d\u00e1vn\u00e9 konflikty, naprav\u00ed, co se jim d\u0159\u00edve nepoda\u0159ilo. Nebo aspo\u0148 doufaj\u00ed, \u017ee jim nebude h\u016f\u0159e. Partne\u0159i jsou pro sebe p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00ed pro to, \u017ee s pomoc\u00ed partnera l\u00e9pe unesou sv\u00e9 nejhlub\u0161\u00ed obavy a uspokoj\u00ed sv\u00e9 pot\u0159eby v\u00edce ne\u017e doposud. Partner n\u00e1s m\u00e1 pochopit a un\u00e9st.<\/p>\n D\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti utv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed t\u00e9ma, kter\u00e9 ve vztahu \u0159e\u0161\u00edme<\/strong><\/p>\n Obsahem smlouvy je n\u011bjak\u00e9 t\u00e9ma, kter\u00e9 je pro oba partnery d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9. Nap\u0159\u00edklad to mohou b\u00fdt tyto ot\u00e1zky: V jak\u00e9 m\u00ed\u0159e m\u00e1m \u017e\u00edt pro druh\u00e9ho a nakolik mohu z\u016fstat s\u00e1m sebou? V jak\u00e9 m\u00ed\u0159e m\u00e1me o sebe pe\u010dovat? Jak moc mohu druh\u00e9ho \u0159\u00eddit a ovliv\u0148ovat? A v jak\u00e9 m\u00ed\u0159e se mohu oddat z\u00e1vislosti na druh\u00e9m, ani\u017e bych se c\u00edtil vyu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n? Jsem pro druh\u00e9ho dost mu\u017eem nebo dost \u017eenou? Ot\u00e1zky se v\u011bt\u0161inou t\u00fdkaj\u00ed m\u00edry n\u011b\u010deho. P\u0159\u00edtomnost ot\u00e1zek sama o sob\u011b nen\u00ed probl\u00e9mem, komplikaci v\u0161ak m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161et m\u00edra, ve kter\u00e9 n\u011bco uskute\u010d\u0148uji nebo po druh\u00e9m po\u017eaduji.<\/p>\n Podm\u00ednky p\u00e1rov\u00e9 harmonie<\/strong><\/p>\n P\u0159ejeme si takov\u00fd vztah, ve kter\u00e9m budou na\u0161e p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed obsa\u017een\u00e1 ve smlouv\u011b napln\u011bna. Dokud na tom oba partne\u0159i spolupracuj\u00ed vz\u00e1jemn\u00fdmi reakcemi, smlouva je dodr\u017eov\u00e1na. Kdy\u017e jsou hlavn\u00ed body smlouvy oboustrann\u011b pln\u011bny, vztah je pro partnery uspokojiv\u00fd. K naru\u0161en\u00ed souladu partner\u016f doch\u00e1z\u00ed tehdy, kdy\u017e jeden nebo oba partne\u0159i smlouvu nedodr\u017euj\u00ed, a\u0165 ji\u017e proto, \u017ee nemohou nebo necht\u011bj\u00ed. Pokud m\u00e1 p\u00e1r sv\u00e9 sd\u00edlen\u00e9 t\u00e9ma, tak vztah m\u00e1 pro partnery smysl.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Kv\u011bten, \u201e\u010das l\u00e1sky\u201c je spojen se zamilovanost\u00ed, p\u0159ibli\u017eov\u00e1n\u00edm se a spojov\u00e1n\u00edm se mu\u017ee a \u017eeny do vztahu. Co pr\u00e1v\u011b dva konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed lidi do vztahu p\u0159iv\u00e1d\u00ed? A pokud vztah trv\u00e1, co n\u00e1s ve vztahu nad\u00e1le udr\u017euje? Prvn\u00ed v\u011bci, kter\u00fdmi n\u00e1s druh\u00fd zaujme, je jeho p\u0159ita\u017elivost ve vzhledu a chov\u00e1n\u00ed. 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